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This Boy's Life

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In the 1950s, Toby (Leonardo DiCaprio) and his mom, Caroline (Ellen Barkin), move to the state of Washington. There they meet mild-mannered Dwight (Robert De Niro), who falls in love with Caroline. They're married, and, after some initial happiness in the household, it becomes apparent that Dwight believes violence is the best way to discipline his troubled stepson. Unfortunately, Caroline is unwilling to give up on her marriage. As Dwight's abuse intensifies, Toby plans an escape.
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A harrowing, moving drama about a young boy, his single mother, and his abusive stepfather, This Boy's Life benefits from its terrific cast, and features a breakout performance from a young Leonardo DiCaprio.

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David Ansen Newsweek 01/29/2019
The beauty of This Boy's Life is in the details: this meticulously observed story gets the look of the late '50s down pat and, more important, captures the dissonance between the era's ideals of nuclear-family life and painfully deracinated reality. Go to Full Review
Richard Corliss TIME Magazine 02/08/2010
Something more subtle is going on in Wolff's book, a confrontation with a richer, quirkier past and his emerging self that the movie too often brushes aside. Go to Full Review
Jonathan Rosenbaum Chicago Reader 02/08/2010
The leads work overtime to make their characters and their relationships pungent, believable, and moving. Go to Full Review
Nick Rogers Midwest Film Journal 05/05/2013
4.5/5
The film demands ominous electricity between Dwight and Toby, the latter of whom endures various and sundry humiliation and harm at the former's hands. And there are times when DiCaprio doesn't just go toe-to-toe with De Niro but feels just as tall. Go to Full Review
TV Guide 02/08/2010
3.5/4
This is powerful and moving stuff. Go to Full Review
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Joy B. @9mr_0 Dec 31 فيلم جميل جدا و اداء مميز من ليوناردو دي كابريو وروبرت دينيرو تحويل قصة حقيقية الى سناريو متقن تقريبا مع حوارات تتناغم مع صراعات الشخصيات كان ممتاز الإخراج والتصوير ممتاز الذي فشل الفلم به هو العمق الدرامي هناك شخصيات ثانوية ضهرت وكنها تكملت حوار لم يسلط المخرج عليها الضوء ليستفاد منها حصر الصراع بين شخصيتين فقط وهذا الشيء لم يكن سيء لكن كان بالامكان ان يكون افضل See more Blobbo X @Blobbo Dec 21 Fans of young Dicaprio might enjoy. Average bio-pic. See more TheMovieSearch R @TheMovieSearch Nov 5 This Boy’s Life is one of those rare coming-of-age dramas that leaves an emotional mark long after the credits roll. Starring Leonardo DiCaprio and Robert De Niro, the film explores the painful and complex reality of an abusive household in 1950s America. DiCaprio plays Tobias “Toby” Wolff, a boy constantly moving with his mother, played by Ellen Barkin, who’s simply trying to find stability and love. When she falls for De Niro’s character, Dwight, that search for stability turns into a nightmare of control, manipulation, and violence. What makes this film so compelling is the way it balances raw realism with deeply human storytelling. DiCaprio, still early in his career, delivers a performance far beyond his years. You can already see the brilliance that would later define him as one of Hollywood’s finest actors. His portrayal of Toby is heartbreaking, believable, and layered—he embodies fear, defiance, and hope all at once. De Niro, on the other hand, is terrifyingly good as Dwight. His quiet menace and emotional instability make every scene uncomfortable in the best cinematic way. It’s a performance that makes your stomach turn, yet you can’t look away because of how masterfully it’s done. The direction by Michael Caton-Jones captures the bleakness of small-town America and the suffocating nature of a toxic home. His camera lingers on the stillness of domestic life just long enough for the tension to build, reminding viewers that sometimes the most terrifying moments happen behind closed doors. The pacing is deliberate, mirroring the feeling of being trapped, while the transitions between scenes often feel like emotional punches. It’s filmmaking that’s both artistic and brutally honest. The screenplay, based on Tobias Wolff’s memoir, does an excellent job of maintaining authenticity. The dialogue feels real—sometimes funny, sometimes vulgar, and often painfully truthful. The story doesn’t sugarcoat anything, especially when it comes to abuse or teenage rebellion. It finds small bits of humor and heart in moments that might otherwise feel unbearable, and that balance makes the film more powerful. It’s not just about violence—it’s about survival, resilience, and the desire to escape. The chemistry between the cast elevates every scene. Ellen Barkin gives one of her most vulnerable performances as a mother torn between love and fear, and her dynamic with both De Niro and DiCaprio brings emotional depth to the film. The way the three interact—love, rage, confusion—feels so real that it’s hard not to internalize their pain. Each moment builds toward a powerful finale that leaves you both broken and hopeful. Overall, This Boy’s Life is a haunting and emotional drama that captures the darker side of family life with precision and empathy. It’s not an easy watch, but it’s an essential one, especially for those who appreciate strong performances and truthful storytelling. It remains one of the most underrated films of the 1990s and a defining early role for Leonardo DiCaprio—a glimpse of greatness in the making. See more Alejandro E @Alex970 Sep 26 Inspired by a memoir, this film may not be one of the best of the 1990s. However, it is DiCaprio and De Niro who give this true drama enough substance. Perfect for a cosy weekend viewing See more r96 s Aug 19 'This Boy’s Life' manages to produce an impressive feat: making me hate Robert De Niro! His character here, that is. I've only seen the guy in likeable roles, 'Meet the Parents' is as close as a portrayal has come to being unlikeable. Dwight, in this, is despicable! All the aforementioned is simply a plus point for the film, though. It's obviously not overly difficult to make a person garner hatred, but I do appreciate that we see how Dwight becomes the way he is - e.g. the shooting scene. It does get a touch repetitive at times, only minorly so. Not only does this flick have De Niro, it also has one Leonardo DiCaprio - in his first leading movie role, no less. Both are excellent throughout, positives can too be remarked about Ellen Barkin's performance. Elsewhere, youthful Tobey Maguire and Carla Gugino also appear. An uncomfortable watch, but it is a very good release from 1993. See more thiago s @Thiagostone Jun 20 Filme fraco, o roteiro é fraco, as cenas são fracas, a história é fraca, o elenco é fraco, e ninguém ajuda a melhorar o filme, os personagens são fracos, e o filme deveria ter cenas bem melhores e relevantes, para fazer o filme ser bom See more Read all reviews
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Synopsis In the 1950s, Toby (Leonardo DiCaprio) and his mom, Caroline (Ellen Barkin), move to the state of Washington. There they meet mild-mannered Dwight (Robert De Niro), who falls in love with Caroline. They're married, and, after some initial happiness in the household, it becomes apparent that Dwight believes violence is the best way to discipline his troubled stepson. Unfortunately, Caroline is unwilling to give up on her marriage. As Dwight's abuse intensifies, Toby plans an escape.
Director
Michael Caton-Jones
Producer
Art Linson
Screenwriter
Robert Getchell
Production Co
Warner Bros.
Rating
R
Genre
Drama, LGBTQ+
Original Language
English
Release Date (Streaming)
Apr 19, 2016
Box Office (Gross USA)
$3.7M
Runtime
1h 55m
Sound Mix
Surround
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